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in. December 20, For those of you who have been following me since the beginning of my personal journey as both a Hotwife, and a blogger, or on my website, over the years, you already know that one of my most frequently asked questions from men goes like this:.
Should she wear it on her left ankle, or her right ankle? What should I tell her when I give it to her? I wondered how many times I had written about this subject before, so I went back through my archives. What I discovered in those 12 Posts surprised me. My thinking on this subject has grown, along with my experience, and from the input I have received from what the members of Dr.
Spoiler Alert! I do not disavow any advice I have ever given about the wearing of a Hotwife Ankle Bracelet as an indicator of her status.
My level of experience and my relationship with my husband, about what it means to him, has changed, which means my thinking has also changed. That is how a hotwife was portrayed in the world as we knew it back in The only place we could find information was on Lifestyle sites like Tumblr or on some of the totally worthless Lifestyle Forums, where if you ask a question and 20 people respond, you get 20 different opinions.
Lifestyle forums are worth only as much as they cost you to get, which should be zero! Those Forums did NOT work for us, and is the reason I decided to become a blogger and have my own website, because we decided there needed to be a voice of reason who would tell the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly, otherwise known as the Truth, about this Alternative Marriage Lifestyle.
Because that is what he learned searching on line when he realized he had this fantasy, which it turns out most men have, of sharing his wife with other men. So that led us to a conversation, which led us down this path which if you want to know how we got where we are, I have written about it extensively on my website, but this Post is about the wearing of ankle bracelets. By the way, How to spot a hotwife still wear one every day I am not traveling for my day job, and it is still a topic of conversation for my husband who almost always asks me which one I am wearing. I have about thirty of them but to be honest there are at least ten of them I will never wear out in public.
I am explaining this to you so you can understand how our thinking has evolved over these past years. The advice I used to give men was not do anything stupid like my husband did, and I used to advise women on how to handle any conversation that came up as a result of wearing one. I used to help women craft a response based on her level of interest with the guy doing the asking. That was then. That is not the reality of today. I can tell when men are disappointed with my advice to the ankle bracelet question now and it tells me where they have been getting their information.
Pardon my extreme Southeastern American slang. In order to do that you first have to know what the symbolic message is. To be honest with you when I first put the message out on Dr. We worked it through eventually, as collaboration, and I have explained this many times since then in other Posts, but here it is again. A Hotwife wearing an ankle bracelet is sending a symbolic message to men who understand its meaning, that her husband is giving his consent to men to approach her and talk to her.
Wearing an ankle bracelet does not obligate a women to anything at all.
What I should have done was ask a man what he thought it meant, because men already know there is no obligation on her part. So why do so many Hotwives wear an ankle bracelet? Second, even if a man approaches her with intent, the subject of her ankle bracelet is NOT going to come up, before the fact. If it comes up after the fact and he consummates her as a practicing Hotwife then, who cares? So what is the advice I give to a man if he wants his wife to get more attention from men and the ankle bracelet is not the best way to advertise her status?
Not an ankle bracelet! The ankle bracelet draws men who know its symbolic meaning. Her wedding ring draws every man in the club! Hotwife Lifestyle blogger, lifestyle coach, and Wife Sharing advocate. Write to me at AlexisMcCall35 Yahoo. Get started. Open in app. Alexis McCall. in Get started. Get started Open in app.
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