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But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapistto help us out with the details. Q: Often, when I'm on the edge of orgasmI'll feel overwhelmed, and will need to pause.

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I feel like I'm stopping myself just when it's getting really good, but I worry about what will happen if I do let go. What's going on? Should I push through? A: Thanks for the question! Orgasms can feel easily distractible! There are a of possible reasons why you might be feeling blocked at that particular moment. I think it's most useful to think about your blockages outside of the bedroom, to minimize getting distracted when you're with your partner in the moment. Here are six possibilities that might be causing your mental blockages, and strategies for minimizing your distractions during sex.

If you think this may be the case for you, check out my handy primer to knowing what an orgasm feels likeand read these descriptions from five real women. I also highly recommend that you explore masturbation on your own.

You can learn how to give yourself an orgasm, in the privacy of your own space.

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That way you'll know what to look out for when you're with a partner. Try to think of your orgasms in the same way. Our society is control-obsessed. Unfortunately, control is often a myth. Think back to a time where you and your girlfriends got each other laughing so hard that none of you could stop. Or think back to the last time someone surprised you with a romantic gesture.

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In the moment, try reminding yourself of these realities. Having an orgasm is a vulnerable experience. In some cases, all your body may need is a little more time to get to know your partner. Countless more have had sexual experiences that felt difficult or uncomfortable.

If you've experienced any sort of trauma, I highly recommend checking out the book Healing Sex by Staci Haines and considering booking a consultation with a psychotherapist. We are a culture of multi-taskers. We scroll through Instagram while we brush our teeth, watch TV while we eat, and answer s while we have conversations with our friends.

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Our brains are so used to being in overdrive mode that it can be difficult to relax and focus on just one task at a time! If you feel your brain going haywire during sex, you may want to take up meditation. I really like Hepacewhich is great for meditation newbies. You can also try doing a no-multitasking challenge; for one day a week, try to only do one activity at a time.

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It will feel ridiculously challenging at first, but it will slowly get easier. One great strategy you can use during sex is to come up with a mantra to help bring yourself back into the moment. You can also try taking slow, deep breaths, which will help you relax and feel more connected to your body.

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The point is to focus on the sensations you're feeling in your body, and not to think specifically about the blockage. Sometimes it can feel really hard to know what that damn blockage is all about! Or try a different tactic by visualizing yourself having an orgasm with someone, and see what comes up for you.

The mantra trick can be really helpful. Good luck! And if you want to learn more about orgasm, check out Finishing Schoolmy online course for women who want to learn how to orgasm. J Sex Med. Epub Mar PMID: Black, M. By Vanessa Marin.

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