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This self bondage tips piece is by Jonathan Peters. Again, this is not my advice; follow these instructions at your own risk. It is likely that the majority of people have no desire ever to be physically restrained.

Likely, but unproven — there appears to have been very little esearch on the topic. This is the kind of field where people hide the truth from themselves let alone from others. My guess is that plenty of utterly ormal en would dearly love to be tied to a bed by self bondage tips sex symbol of their dreams.

Going beyond this, there are certainly plenty of people who explicitly crave some kind of enforced immobility. This is sometimes out of curiosity but more usually for erotic stimulation. Most modern guides to love making include a section on bondage, highlighting the intensity it can give to sexual relationships while emphasising the need for full consensuality and avoidance of physical harm ie Comfort, At a deeper level, I cannot fully explain why some people seek to be tied up but can pass on a few observations published or anecdotal and a wild guess.

This might explain the reputation of conservative back bench MPs in the UK! Dominant or forceful mothers have also been implicated. The whole field seems overdue for some roper research. My theory, for what it is worth, is that the state of enforced, smothered immobility reminds the unconscious mind of conditions in the uterus.

This would fit with high IQ as good early mental development would be needed to lay down memories accurate enough to influence behaviour 20 years laterthe high frequency of transvestitism wrapped up in essence of femaleand from my own experience only the paradoxical feeling of total safety in a situation wich is objectively just the opposite. All other ideas welcomed. There are certain difficulties in tying oneself, notably the conflict between being helpless ie unable to escape and the need for a guaranteed escape in due course. Much ingenuity has gone into solving this conundrum, and although most people escape most of the time there have been alarming s of men who died through making a mistake.

If you follow the principles given below you can make yourself helplessly tied for a precisely controlled length of time as long as you wantwhile retaining the option of a secure back-up escape option. There is no excuse for getting irrevocably stuck.

All you will need are a few household items that can be bought in any town and look quite innocent. Believe me, the ability to conjure up a succubus from everyday things who indulges your sexual fantasies more absolutely than any human, then who evaporates back away into the household is a remarkable and wonderful power!

Have you ever tried opening a combination padlock in the dark? Probably not- to a good approximation it is utterly impossible. Most of the techniques described below use a combination lock — but then who switches the lights on and off?

A preset timer switch! In essence you create a self-bondage setup with a combinatio n lock as a keystone. Program your timer to switch the light off, then back on again in a while. Slip on the wrist loops or whatever, and wait. Note that the length of time of helplessness is up to you to choose, but is irrevocable self bondage tips the exercise is under way. What happens if the house catches fire in that period of helpless?

If your escape really depends on opening the lock, you die. If you follow my advice you will have at least one sharp penknife within easy reach and are likely to escape and live. A good smoke alarm is a wise precaution. In a situation where seconds matter ie someone petrol bombs your house then being tied up is a seriously bad idea, but if you are paranoid enough to worry about such disasters self-bondage may not be the hobby for you! Statistically, the big danger is asphyxiation. This is a nasty way to go, but simple asphyxia would give you time to open a knife and cut cords loose.

The real killer is strangulation, which can cause a sudden loss of consciousness. Judo, Shorinji Kempo and other martial arts exploit this by teaching their advanced students to squeeze the carotid artery in the neck, causing unconsciousness in 10 seconds. This le to death unless followed by immediate resuscitation. Being comfortably tied up is not intrinsically dangerous, if you have the bail-out option of a penknife nearby to cut cords.

Oddly, this can make the experience less satisfying since you know you are only pretending. I recall the wonderful feeling of freedom in throwing my knife on the floor, leaving me truly helpless awaiting the dawn. Psychologists may find this worthy of further research. If you do that, accept that any emergency will kill you. A digital timer switch, a digital watch ideally with a countdown timeran extension cable that ends in a double socket, two clip-on or bedside lamps, two combination padlocks, nylon cord, 1 or more sharp penknives, a bed, a tube of fast setting polymethacrylate glue Supergluesome sort of broad soft strap.

Lamps: You will depend on their light to escape — what when a bulb blows?

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Hence the need for 2 lamps but check the maximum power load your timer switch and extension cable can safely take. Cord: You will need lots! Combination self bondage tips There are several types of combination padlock — the only criterion is that they must be openable with one hand. The sort with one round dial on the front like miniature safe dials are easy to open, but have a subtle weakness see later.

A few bicycle padlocks have only combinations, which is simply too few 10 minutes to open blind. Knives: Your penknife should have a folding blade and a fastener on the handle to which you can tie a piece of string. Bed: Ideally your bed will have posts at each corner, though with ingenuity and lots of cord almost anything will do!

The strap: By far the best item here is a broad cotton belt called Obi by the Japanese as worn by martial artists to denote their status. These belts are very strong, never slip and never leave embarrassing marks on skin. Any martial arts shop and lots of sports shops sell them in a range of colours. I would never use my black belt this way having earned itbut there is no law against you buying any colour you want. I discovered the wonderful uses of an obi during Shorinji Kempo training.

The post-blackbelt syllabus includes a technique called Baku Ho Dai Ichi translation: first binding techniquewhich involves using the belt that you conveniently just happen to have around your waist to immobilise an opponent.

If you want to know more, find a Shorinji Kempo dojo and grade to shodan! If you have no martial arts connections, explaining why you have just purchased a belt may prove difficult, but for the attachments described below an obi is hard to beat. Failing that, its place could be taken by simple nylon cord, but this will tend to self bondage tips the skin.

A rolled sheet might also be OK at a pinch. Theory: one hand alone cannot remove a loop which has slipped tight around its wrist, even though this is trivial for 2 hands working together. Therefore set up two slip loops well apart ie on each bedpostthen put one hand through each loop. Tie your fine cord to the penknife, leaving a tail of about 50cm of cord. Next tie a loop in the far end of this cord, so that you can clip a padlock though this loop and be sure that you knife is at the other end. Squirt a few drops of superglue on both knots.

This freezes the knot — you will never undo it now though of course it can be cut. After a few seconds wrap soft tissues around the glued area to mop it all up. These are impossible to shift and very hard to explain! B: Setup the bed: You need a firm attachment for your padlocks at each side of the top of your bed. If your bed lacks posts, you will have to run cord upwards from the legs, ending in a loop whose knot is superglued. A bit of experimentation is called for!

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C: Make wrist loops. In theory all you need is a piece of cord with a slip knot. This will slip tighter as you struggle, marking skin and cutting off blood supply. Tie the loop in such a way that there is a stop knot which prevents it slipping too tight. You will need to spend some time calibrating each loop until you are sure that it will slip just tight enough to hold, and no more.

When you are happy about this loop, open it wide enough that you can easily put one hand into the loop. The wrist loop should have a long tail, along which the slip knot slides. Next tie a small second loop on the long tail which the padlock will go throughand freeze this new knot with superglue. You would be well advised to spend a little while padding each wrist loop to prevent it from cutting your skin. The simplest but very effective approach is to wrap masking tape or large plasters around the stretch of cord that will pull against your skin.

Scuba diving shops sell wrist loops just like this encased in thick soft rubber tubing called buddy lines. These are used to hold 2 divers together in murky water, and are readily modified for auto-bondage purposes. As with all diving kit, they are effective but expensive! You self bondage tips do the same thing yourself more cheaply with rubber tubing, though persuading string through old bunsen-burner piping is remarkably self bondage tips D: Setup the lamps. Position them so that they illuminate the bed, without any possibility of their falling over or touching flammable material.

Plug them both into the same extension lead, and plug the extension cable into the wall. Switch on the mains supply, and switch on both lamps. Check that they both work! If they are OK, leave them switched on but switch off at the wall and pull the extension cable out of the wall socket. Disconect the phone now. E: Assemble the bonds. Open one combination lock, and use it to lock one wrist loop and one knife to the cord around a bedpost.

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Check carefully that the loop and the knife are both firmly attached to the bed — give them a firm pull to make sure. Repeat this for the other side — and stage is set. F: Next, try the escape under ideal conditions.

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Lie down on your back, put one hand through one loop, and pull it tight. Check that you can get the knife, and then practise opening the combolock several times with one hand. Confirm that this really does free your hand completely.

Practise opening the penknife, and check that you can get the blade into a position to cut at least one of the cords.

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All OK? Now the first real test. Reshut the lock, ensuring that the knife is still firmly attached. Wriggle a little to check that you really are stuck, and then escape by opening a lock. Now you can start the timed routine. This bit needs darkness- best wait for nighttime, though I suppose a blacked out room would do during daylight hours.

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