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Latest update added: September 14, This site is a series of essays ramblings on the topic of male edging blog cock edging and extended cum denial, and may be of interest to others looking to intensify their experience with cock. I only post updates if I have something to say. I manipulate the date stamps of these posts to force newer entries to the bottom of theso the reader doesn't face the awkward backward reading that most blogs require.

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I am also available for contact on BateWorld. Follow Show Joe on Twitter. Follow ShowJoe Why indeed. Why would any red-blooded male want to avoid orgasm and ejaculation? This blog covers two related but separate topics: "Extreme Edging" and "Cum Denial. Quite simply, the point is to make the sensations last longer.

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Given the choice between five minutes of pleasure or two hours of pleasure, it became a no-brain choice. Extended Cum Denial: Why would anybody want to do this? Most men I talk to seem to grasp the rationale for postponing ejaculation to extend the duration of pleasure. But to deliberately end a session without ejaculation? What the fuck? This is the question I field most often. When I first happened upon the concept of extended cum denial, I was skeptical at the least. It struck me as something a monk would practice in a monastery, like a vow of poverty, a self-flagellating vow of chastity.

An austerity. Something to do with purity. The word "denial" held no appeal, unless one is embarked on some kind of sacrificial path. Make no mistake, I am a totally obsessed, addicted cock freak. This has nothing to do with austerity or purity, and everything to do with intensity. This is not hands-off chastity, but fully hands-on active masturbation. When you actively masturbate but deny the cock its expected release, the sexual tension grows, the intensity of sensation increases.

Between cock sessions, you are energized and sexually aware. Rather than denying the cock, we intensify the cock. That, boys, is worth the price of admission. Those of us who practice cum denial do it for a reason, and believe me the reason is lustful, horny, and intensely sexual. Edging is the art of masturbating your cock to the edge of cumming, but not letting it spill over the brink. You keep the sensations going and building over time, prolonging the pleasure.

Observers of my web cam sometimes ask how this is possible. They say they simply can't last like that. Learning to edge your cock male edging blog with a basic reversal of mindset.

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Most men accept the assumption that the goal of stroking is to cum. The goal of edging is NOT to cum. Your cock will tell you otherwise, and this is where most men fail. A male edging blog wants to cum and an male edging blog refuses the demand. You're gonna cum sooner or later, so it might as well be later so you can enjoy longer the work your cock was born to do. After a few minutes, the immediate urge to cum will subside and you level out into something really pleasant. Most edgers I have spoken to use a rise and fall technique. They stroke and let the feeling build till they are almost ready to cum, then they back off and let things die down.

Once the urge to cum is under control, they begin the process again, repeatedly stopping or backing off to postpone cumming. Again, the goal must be not to cum, or you'll get carried away. Personally, I no longer use this rise and fall technique.

With practice two things develop over time: you learn exactly how your cock reacts and you learn that the urge to cum can be ignored. I prefer to build my cock to the edge of cumming and keep it there, instead of repeatedly backing down. I suppose what I do could be considered a series of mini rise and fall cycles. I build the feelings close to the edge, but instead of stopping and letting the pleasure die off, I just pause for a few seconds and stroke again.

Stroke, pause, stroke, pause, constantly pushing my cock into The Zone. In addition to mental control, with practice you develop muscle control as well. If you were pissing and wanted to cut off the flow before you were finished, you'd know what muscles to tighten. The same muscle tightening will hold back your cum. I read somewhere that you can exercise these muscles throughout the day, squeezing like you are cutting off a piss while driving or at work, but I seldom remember to do it.

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I edge my cock for hours and the sensations build in layers, level upon level until I am literally moaning outloud. Your cock will leak precum. Several levels up the spiral your muscles will be fighting, your hand urging your cock forward while the muscles fight to hold back.

It will drive you wild and you'll wonder how you ever settled for a quickie in the past. I regularly masturbate on web cam, and the practice was instrumental in initially learning to edge. I found I could edge much longer when on cam, because there are distractions and interruptions that lend themselves to the stroke-pause cycle I use.

I type to buddies and observers you become proficient at one-handed typingI click on cams and messages, the busy work helped. I encourage any man to learn how to edge his cock. A non-edger never experiences his cock's potential.

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Who Controls Who? The majority of men are unable to stroke their cocks for any length of time without cumming. They express a certain amazement toward edgers who can prolong the pleasure for hours, holding back at will. Their cocks run the show and they soon reach a point of no return, climax and the good times are over. When we first learned to masturbate, most of us had to do so in secret, and the fear of being caught led us to get done with it quickly. With 's lack of impulse control, we let our cocks take us on a wild, out of control ride. Premature ejaculation is something we taught ourselves in junior high school.

It is apparent that the cock is controlling the man, and not the other way around. In order to edge your cock for an extended session, you have to reverse this balance of power. You do not ask your cock's permission to do so. Here is what works for me. The concept may seem a bit strange, but most edgers I have talked to think this way. Most edgers male edging blog of their cock as a being separate from themselves.

A being that they take ownership of, like a slave under their control and at their mercy. We refer to him in the third person, this separate being that is ours to use. Some of us even give him a name to further promote the separation. You take him in hand and at the outset sentence him to a long session.

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He demands to cum. You do not accept demands. He begs to cum, but you refuse the request. You interrupt the stroking, he insists youbut you ignore his ultimatum. He is your possession. He eventually learns to accept this servitude. I will stroke for hours then stop without cumming, putting him to bed hungry, asserting my control over him. The next session is just that much more intense. If that seems incomprehensible, you may want to reassess just male edging blog is controlling who.

If you can't imagine NOT cumming, it is probably because your cock would never allow it, which is exactly my point. When your cock is a separate being, subject to your control, receiving only the sensations that you allow, it opens unlimited possibilities for intense and prolonged pleasure sessions. Two Kinds of Edging. I have not posted anything new to this series for some time, feeling I had said what I wanted to say. But I have some new ideas that warrant discussion. Male edging blog have found myself practicing two forms of edging, which I refer to as closed and open edging.

Or clenched versus relaxed edging. My earlier posts here described closed or clenched edging. The muscles you use to clamp off a stream of piss are the same muscles you use to resist cumming. I spoke of urging the cock to want to cum, then feeling the muscles fight to hold back. This is certainly a worthwhile way to spend an afternoon. But I have evolved into a second technique of edging that has its place in other circumstances.

Instead of clenching down the muscles to control the urge to cum, I do just the opposite, basically opening the gates wide open and trying to keep the sex muscles relaxed. Here' how it works. When I get really close to spilling, instead of clamping down the muscles to control the cum, I just interrupt the stroke and relax to let the momentary urgency subside.

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