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Many are dubious of the legitimacy of this form of domination while some of the most popular BDSM news stories center around women raking in the cash with these techniques. One point that cannot be denied is that many people enjoy this form of consensual, financial domination. Our contributor Jezebel Sinclair is here to offer clarity and tips on how to get started. How do I get a slave? The answer to this varies from person to person. Honesty goes a long way in this fetish and being up front about your abilities and experience is key simply because if you lie about your experience and then have a session with an experienced sub, he will notice.

To get a long term sub you have to build a rapport with the sub in financial bdsm and learn about each other. Just because money is involved does not financial bdsm that it should be meaningless. This one is completely up to you. Different strokes for different folks. Everyone has different tastes when it comes to attitude and looks. A well written profile with good content photos, writing is possibly the BEST thing you can do to help market yourself.

Fill out every last information block, you never know when a sub will want to approach you simply because they think you have an amazing music taste or they like your vanilla activities. Remember that your profile or website is literally the only thing a sub has to go on to form an opinion on you and in this fetish first opinions mean everything. The way you present yourself is ultimately going to be what subs think of you.

This le me to another thing, if all you do is post negatively, people will have a negative perception of you and will run for the hills if you approach them. It stands out like a sore thumb to most experienced subs and they will steer very clear of anyone complaining. How can I market myself? Marketing is an extremely important factor in getting noticed in this world.

There are thousands of Dommes both experienced and novice all striving for the same thing and in a niche where money is the key factor, the industry is absolutely cutthroat. When I ed the scene, I refused to get a twitter for two years and boy was that a mistake. Twitter is one of the best free marketing tools a Domme can use. Well executed tweets about both your kink AND vanilla life can reel subs in and get you loyal followers and lots of money. Bad Tweet:. The difference in the quality of those tweets is quite noticeable and yes the financial bdsm one was tweeted only for the purpose of screenshotting lol.

You have to set yourself and everything you do to certain standards. If your standards are low quality, that will be the type of subs you attract. Short answer — yes for the most part. Always run your photos through a simple editor and fix any lighting problems, graininess, red eye etc. Quality over quantity is key. I personally feel that subs will appreciate one good photo with good lighting and a good pose over 10 photos with awful financial bdsm and the same pose slightly altered.

Find the balance to create what you think is an awesome quality photo and hold yourself to those standards every time. Teach yourself to create these things and it will truly help you as far as marketing goes. Can I still appeal to subs without too many photos or graphics? Yes, ultimately it comes down to your expertise as a Dominant and the attitude you have. How do I come up with content? How do painters create paintings?

How do writers create stories? This is a pretty self explanatory question. You have to come up with content on your own out of your own imagination. Nobody will hold your hand and create your content for you. A good place to start is with the standard industry content ideas ex: foot photos, videos, some findom games, etc.

When it comes to tasks, it gets trickier. Creating original tasks is actually a pretty big challenge. Brainstorming is great though. From there on, the document only gets larger and larger. Your best bet is to give yourself a weekly goal and stick to it. Stop right there. Stop before you even think about doing it again. If you decide to copy someone chances are they WILL notice. If you decide you still want to do it, expect DMCA takedowns and public ridicule and know that everyone will agree that you deserve it. An owned sub messaged me, what do I do? Ignore them. Something I personally do is message the owner if I know who she is.

Respectfully let the owner know what is going on financial bdsm they deserve to know that their sub is not being respectful to them. Screenshots and a respectful message letting the Domme know go a long way and will show the Domme that you are trustworthy and have excellent integrity. Why do all my subs fail me? The answer to this can be many things — some of which can be YOUR fault.

Are you instantly collaring subs who want to be owned? Are you even putting them through a consideration period?

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Consideration periods vary by Domme to Domme but I find that just as it would be in an intimate relationship, time itself ultimately shows you who you are dealing with. Set out a budget for your sub, micromanage. You have to remember that a lot of things in the industry are smoke and mirrors type things. Will I look self centered if I post pictures of my tributes? I highly doubt every princess or queen in financial bdsm scene actually lives in a financial bdsm and rules their own kingdom.

Anyone who says otherwise is probably unhappy with the fruits of their efforts and looking to shoot you down. People that are comfortable with themselves and what they do will be happy that other Dommes are being successful and in my personal opinion and experience, subs love to see their gifts posted and they love it even more if you remember who gifted you what. Just remember to do you. Setting is another thing that can completely make or break a good photo or video.

Nobody wants to see a photo of you looking beautiful but a dirty mattress without sheets in the background or a complete mess with clothes and trash on the floor etc.

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That being said, in my opinion one should always strive for the best quality they can and if your subs can afford it, I recommend you have them buy you a professional camera. I recently got a Canon t3i with the standard 55 mm lens and was extremely pleased. In this scene as far as networking goes, you have to give some to take some. Making friends and networking might open certain doors that otherwise may stay firmly shut. This goes for both networking with Dommes AND subs. They speak of our friendship to their Domme which in turn, opens doors to someday filming with their Dommes which will appeal to those looking for financial bdsm Domme experiences and benefit both of us.

The possibilities are quite literally endless. ing forums and groups and actively participating in them is a great start. Twitter is another great way to make friends. Remember to follow me on twitter JezebelSinclair.

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A legendary fetish model building an auspicious Femdom empire one slave at a time. Miss Sinclaire has, as she states, more than seven years experience. But all subs should realize there is little legal recourse should they find their bank statement suddenly at zero. Again, Miss Sinclaire — well done. This is an essential article for both Dommes and subs to read. Maybe you could expand on situations you have seen that could help newbie subs better navigate the dangerous world of Financial Domination.

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